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12 Backyard Birds That Mate for Life

Some species of birds go their separate ways each season, but others are more loyal and mate for years or even for life. These loyal bird pairs return each year to the same mates, the same territories, and sometimes even to the very same nests. If you're able to recognize them, you may be able to find some of these loyal bird pairs in your own backyard.

Northern Cardinal Pairs

Northern Cardinal Pairs

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Northern Cardinals are easily recognizable both in appearance and behavior. You can find the bright male and the female's reddish brown feathers at your feeders. They stay together all year and feed and communicate via distinctive whistling songs. You can also see them court each other. Males will feed the females and this behavior continues throughout the seasons and is not limited to the breeding period. These birds will return to the same territories for their entire lives. When a pair of cardinals choose your yard, they will come back every day (or multiple times a day) to the same locations. You will likely hear \"birdy-birdy-birdy\" calls before you spot the pair. To attract these birds to your feeders and yard, use black sunflower seeds and add holly or juniper shrubs for their nesting and cover. To attract cardinals to your yard, place a feeder with sunflower seeds.

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Cardinals are among the select few species where both the male and female sing. If you hear a ‘birdy-birdy-birdy’ call that is answered by another, you are probably listening to a bonded pair talking to each other.

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Mourning Dove Duos

Mourning Dove Duos

W mourning doves ensure socially bonding for mating that can last a lifetime. This mated pair is more social than other species regardless of their monogamous status and are often seen feeding in flocks. During nesting season, there is an opportunity to spot a mated pair that can work together. The male dove will go collect material while the female dove positions it into the nest. Both mated pairs will sit on and incubate the eggs. Outside of breeding season, mated paired will sit together and perch on a power line or split post dove drink frequesntly and tend to visit the birds bath paired dove. Mourning doves are attracted to scattered millet, cracked corn, and sunflower hearts on platform feeders, or directly on the ground. Mourning doves will put together in the solar birdbath fountain all year to put a low platform feeder. Providing a reliable source for water is most necessary when they will visit birdbaths.

Eastern Bluebird Bonds

Eastern Bluebird Bonds

During the breeding season, Eastern Bluebirds become monogamous. Some pairs have even been known to reunite after migrating. The blue male and rusty-breasted female are very defensive of their territory, and may stay in the same yard all breeding season. Males will do some prety impressive courtship displays where he will do some wing flutters to sing to her, and he will present nest materials rather than sing to her. Southern regions will see up to three broods a season in the pair, and will see them perched in the yard. He may even bring food to her while she incubates the eggs. In order to bluebirds pairs to settle in your yard, birdhouses must have hosing and open space. Some grass space is needed in order for insects to be hunted. Mealworms in dedicated feeders will also attract pairs. So, to keep them in the yard, pairs will need to be offered dried mealworms.

Pro Tip

In southern regions, Bluebirds can raise up to 3 broods in a single season. To encourage them to nest again, be sure to clean out the nest box as soon as each brood has fledged.

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Carolina Wren Partners

Carolina Wren Partners

Carolina Wrens are known for their strong devotion towards partners. They remain coupled throughout their entire lives and will not find other partners until their spouse passes away. Wrens are very social birds and are very likely to be seen amongst the numerous other birds around your home. They are experts at foraging, but each pair will communicate often using their calls. All nest in cavities and are known to nest in flower pots, mailboxes, and even garages. They will nest in cavities that are unconventional. Both partners in the pair invests heavily in the relationship and they will fight against other wren couples for the best foraging areas. They will be seen closely together waving their tails as they hunt for their food. To provide the best foraging experience for Carolina Wren pairs use evergreen shrubs and brush piles. Consider using a nest box that is open-fronted to provide a tiny space for Carolina Wrens to nest. Place a suet feeder as well as mealworms to provide the best food source as well as cover in your yard to attract the Carolina Wren pairs.

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Pair bonds are formed between Black-capped Chickadees as they mate for life. Their courtship displays are rather unique; they include passionate food sharing and bouncy flights.

Black-capped Chickadee Couples

During the breeding season, Black-Capped Chickadees become a couple, and in some cases, breeding pairs will meet again for the next season, especially if the pairs have had success in prior nesting attempts. Within the winter flocks, paired birds tend to stay together and will often pick roosts that are in close proximity to each other. Late in winter, chickadee pairs will begin to move away from winter foraging groups to start nesting. Males will court the females by giving her food in a different call compared to the one used in the winter flock. Look for pairs working on potential nesting sites together and each partner will go in and out of a snag or nesting box. Because of the nesting activity, Black Capped Chickadees prefer rotting wood that is soft for cavity nesting. To attract nesting pairs of chickadees to your property, you should have snags, nest boxes, and suet (with a small entry hole) in your wooded areas. Feeders should also be stocked during the winter to help support the newly arrived pairs.

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Barn Owl Lifers

Barn Owl Lifers

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Barn Owls show extreme fidelity to both their mates and their nesting sites, returning to the same ones year after year. While they may not be as frequent in backyards, they could be set to make a new home on your property if you have farmland or open fields. During the breeding season, male owls perform elaborate courting displays and even catch food for the females which helps strengthen the bond. Once they have eggs, the male continues to hunt and the female will sit on and incubate the eggs. You can find owls roosting in the same nest boxes or silos from a previous season as long as there are open fields. Look for the ghosts of the night as they fly over the meadows and fields at dawn and dusk and listen for their haunting calls which are a distinct and recognizable sound of the night. To attract barn owls to your property, ensure there are rodents for them to hunt and use a large nest box on poles to create a nesting site for them. Place your large barn owl box along with your barn owl box at a height of 12-15 feet high in a large open field to attract a breeding pair.

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Bald Eagle Pairs

Bald Eagle Pairs

Bald Eagles will mate for life, and they will construct the largest nests out of any other species of birds. The nests are made out of sticks and can weigh over a ton! They build these nests, and then return every year to add on to the nests. Bald Eagles are nesting closer and closer to suburban areas, rivers, lakes, and coastlines, making them more visible to the homeowners in those areas. Mated pairs perform courtship displays where they will lock talons and will cartwheel through the sky together. The male and female will take turns incubating the eggs and will leave to fish to bring food to the young. Eagles love located high perches that overlook large amounts of water, and if you are fortunate enough to have eagles in your area, you will see them the same tall trees and large bodies of water year after year. To help sustain and support a pair of eagles, it is important to protect large trees near large and healthy bodies of water and leave eagles alone! Eagles are federally protected and are sensitive to disturbances especially when they are nesting.

Canada Goose Families

Canada Goose Families

Canada Geese create strong bonds with their partners and remain loyal to each other for life. They are very involved as parents and can often be seen sitting on a nest or guarding the nest. Male Canada Geese defend their partners aggressively during the mating season, and defend the nests from anyone they consider a threat. Mated pairs remain together and stay close to each other during flight. They often can be seen swimming or grazing with their partner and will graze with their necks touching. Once baby goslings hatch from the nest, the family unit will stay together and walk in pairs with their babies. Canada Geese will return each year to the same nesting location, so your water and grazing area will be a nesting location for many years. Make sure to appreciate their grazing area while it lasts because the geese will become very protective and will leave a lot of droppings in the area.

American Crow Bonds

American Crow Bonds

American Crows are highly intelligent, lifelong pair bonding monogamous birds that get help from previous offspring to raise their new siblings. Other crows also raise new siblings. Nests are built by the pair as the nest becomes very large. You can identify pairs by their nest building behavior as they are very active in gathering and sharing resources. Crows have highly developed social systems. As such, many males will place several items in a pile to give to a female as food to impress her. Once crows have formed a successful pair, they will often venture a larger community as a duo and keep a role in the community as a whole. In the case of crows, a communal roost is also a breeding roost. If you wish to feed crows, then keep in mind that they will take smaller birds away from the area. To feed crows, simply put out food in the form of peanuts and shells each day along with a source of living water and tall trees (for nesting).

Common Raven Duos

Common Raven Duos

Common Ravens are very smart, and once they find a mate, they bond for life. Ravens can be seen performing impressive flying stunts or engaging in vocal competitions. They prefer secluded areas and as a result are found less in suburban areas than their crow relatives. However, they still are increasingly found in new areas, including some suburban spots. Common Ravens and their mates are often seen flying together in what appears to be choreographed stunts. They have a huge variety of vocalizations that they can use to adapt. In addition, Ravens use unique calls when they are paired that are different than their single calls. Both male and female Common Ravens build a nest together, and will return to that nest in upcoming breeding seasons to lay more eggs. Often during courtship displays most Common Ravens will greatly fluff their throat feathers out and make deep bows to their mates. Ravens are very intelligent and because of this their pair bonds are very interesting to study. If there are nesting trees near your home, you can support these intelligent birds by providing food scraps.

Belted Kingfisher Pairs

Belted Kingfisher Pairs

The Belted Kingfishers will establish a monogamous bond for a breeding season, and if both birds return to a territory, they may reunite in subsequent years. These beautifully colored, shaggy birds, along with their distinct rattling calls, are mostly seen near streams, rivers, ponds, and lakes, though they can visit any backyard water feature if there is fish. The nesting rituals begin with the birds working together to excavate a tunnel that is 3-6 feet long into a river bank, which can take up to 3 weeks. In one day, the female will get off the nest to fish and then relieve the male from his incubation shift, and then the male will go to fish and then relieve the female from her incubation shift. The birds can also be seen perched on a branch that overhangs a river (also known as a “perch”) and when the stream is fished out, they will be side-by-side, diving for fish and returning to that perch (also "fishing") each time to rest. Listen for their rattling calls, which are chiefly calls used in the patrol of founding territory lines and locating fish. The rusty belly band on the female is unique to her, making her more colorful than the male. To attract kingfishers, maintain natural bank with exposed soil for nest sites and stock your waters with fry (baby fish).

Great Horned Owl Partners

Great Horned Owl Partners

Great Horned Owls usually start a lifestyle together for life. This means they will remain with their partner for life. To show their bond during a new season, the courtship continues all year. The Great Horned Owls are predators which leads to some of their unique calls, which can be found on the Internet. Some of the predators songs can be: ‘hoo-hoo', ‘hoooo', ‘hoo', and ‘hoo-hoo’. When the courtship of the Great Horned Owls continues into the breeding season, females will begin nesting. The females incubate from the nests and hunt for their babies while their partners babysit from the nests. In the daylight hours they will be found perched together. The Great Horned Owls can be located in suburban regions, parks, and yards. The Great Horned Owls will be hunting for rabbits, squirrels, and other types of prey. In order to help the Great Horned Owls, keep all of the trees around rodenticides. The rodenticides could kill the predators.